Life Goes On Without You and Me
Praise for Life Goes On Without You and Me
‘The lyricism of his writing is captivating… a heartbreakingly beautiful love letter to the ache that never quite fades.’ – Annetta Benzar, author of I Am Cyprus
‘Moments of poetic brilliance…Matthew Phillip Long masterfully delves into the depths of grief.’ – Alexandros Chronides, Winner of the Emerging Writer Award – Cyprus State Literary Awards 2024
‘Left me breathless…something truly all-encompassing.’ – Melissa Hekkers (for Cyprus Mail)
‘A powerful exploration of grief, memory and belonging.’ – Neos Kosmos
‘Poetic and impassioned…Matthew Phillip Long skilfully evokes the pain of longing to belong.’ – Polis Loizou, author of A Good Year
‘Written with unflinching honesty…an excavation of memory and a desperate search for meaning in the ruins of both homeland and self’ – Nora Nadjarian, author of Ledra Street
‘A bold, brave, and deeply human journey…an honest, heartfelt approach that actually leads to healing’ – Dinos Toumazos, Co-founder and Director of Agora Dialogue
‘Beautiful and heartbreaking…the work is undoubtedly an important addition to literature about Cyprus in English.’ – Marilena Zackheos, author of Arizona, CY
Synopsis
After the death of his mother, Matthew returns to Cyprus, the island of his birth, for the first time in thirty years. Born in Dhekelia to a British family and raised in Britain, he arrives carrying a grief he cannot contain and a longing for a home he has never truly known.
Addressing Cyprus as both witness and beloved, Matthew journeys through Larnaca, Nicosia, Fig Tree Bay, Dhekelia, Varosha, Kyrenia, and Bellapais, searching for meaning in a landscape shaped by memory, empire, partition, displacement, and ghosts. As personal bereavement becomes entwined with national history, he is forced to confront painful questions of identity, masculinity, colonial inheritance, depression, and the fragile hope of beginning again.
Haunting, poetic, and emotionally intimate, Life Goes On Without You and Me is a work of contemporary literary fiction about mourning, belonging, and the lives we try to build from what remains. It is a story of a son grieving his mother, a man searching for home, and a country that becomes both mirror and witness to his sorrow.
Life Goes On Without You and Me is a quiet, lyrical meditation on grief, memory, and belonging, exploring how the landscapes we inherit shape the lives we continue after loss.
A thoughtful and reflective work for readers drawn to intimate explorations of grief, place, and memory.
For readers of reflective literary fiction, grief memoir-inspired fiction, postcolonial writing, and novels with historical elements about Cyprus, memory, loss, and emotional survival.